Working through the pain
Working through pain, (not the physical kind, the heart kind) is as diverse as there are people. Some choose to plow on as though nothing is wrong. Some need to lay blame on someone or something. Some may “go down for the count” for awhile and find the strength to bounce back, still others may never bounce back. Speaking for myself, allowing it to wash over me even smothering my space for awhile is the only way I can work it through. In the end I find a new normal. It may take some time to accept, but this new normal, for me, allows me to move on.